Adefunke Adeniyi
2 min readJul 15, 2021

MY THOUGHTS (Part 2)

The way guys make women feel like sex tools is very embarrassing and shameful. Today, you hear this, tomorrow, you hear that. Have you guys sat down to think at all?

I’m not trying to support anybody here, but permit me to ask you does the woman sleep with herself? You guys make it feel that all a lady can give is her body. Is it all ladies that are brainless? Even the intelligent ones, you still knack them.

Then you will now come and be asking jamb question of what a lady brings to the table.

As a single christain brother, you had the the efforntrey to buy condom before sex, and the allegation you give is, she pushed me into it. Sir, se a bolt is not missing in your head?

Everytime you say ladies, close your laps. Please, let me ask you what happened to your trouser zip? Have you forgotten that zips are meant to be close?

Boya all of us should borrow ourselves sense and not push our stupid decision to one another. Take responsibility for your actions.

If both of you were on that bed moaning and shouting ha, oh, Jesus, and doing your thing, don’t come out and be saying rubbish. As a guy, you could have decided to say NO. You could have preserved the dignity of that lady, and if she’s insisting, be like Joseph and run away.

I totally understand that our body is not firewood, but these sexual hunger can be tamed.

Dear Sister, borrow yourself sense too. Look at how they’re rubbishing the females because what the guys think our body is for pleasure alone. You too, you know that there’s more. Value your body. Don’t let any guy play with your body anyhow. You’re a custodian of so many possibilities. There’s more to you than your sexual urge.

You think I don’t get aroused too? Sincerely I do. I understand it when konji catches any lady. Invest in your brain. Invest in building a life for yourself.

Dear brothers, it’s not every girls that you should go down with. You’ve been shouting that we should close our laps, have you ever considered closing your zip too? You can choose to say NO to her advances and save her dignity.

My point so far is, we should be willing to take responsibility for our actions and choose to do the right thing.

God bless you!

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Adefunke Adeniyi
Adefunke Adeniyi

Written by Adefunke Adeniyi

I am a passionate writer and a media juggernaut. Join me as I navigate adulthood with humor and heart!

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