Adefunke Adeniyi
2 min readDec 7, 2021

LADIES, YOU CAN DO BETTER.

Every video I see on Tiktok just shows how irresponsible our girls are becoming.

All you know how to do is ask guys for money. I am not saying what are you bringing to the table, but what you can do with your life if a guy is not in the picture?

Until we learn to take full responsibility for ourselves, we will keep moving in circles.

Any small thing, I want to buy this and that. Babe, do something.

Your life doesn't revolve around a man. More importantly, he is not your ATM. Learn the act of working and making your own money.

There's this power that I feel when I have my money and I know I can spend it the way I want, unlike when somebody gives me.

Start something. Do something for yourself. Whatever you have to do to get a legit job, do it. There’s no excuse to why you made your guy your ATM.

I know he's your boyfriend, and he should take care of you, but have you ever thought that a relationship is made up of two or more people?

This female gender irritates me at times. If you don't know what it means to make money, then you should never know what it means to enjoy the good things that money brings.

As a young lady, you don’t have a job and you’re wearing a wig of 70k, carrying a bag of 15k, wearing a shoe of 12k, sincerely, you don’t have sense. And all those expenses is on your guy. The money you should use to do business is what you’re using to impress people.

Some of the people you’re trying to impress are people of your brain level. “Gbogbo yin e gbadun papo". (All of you don’t have sense together).

A normal hardworking lady will not envy somebody she doesn’t want to be like. If you don’t fit the picture, there’s nothing you want to do that makes sense to her.

Get out and be valuable. Las Las, you’ll end up as a full house wife and be waiting for Daddy Bidemi to come before you buy maggi; shioor.

Babe, let's borrow ourselves sense. We can do better than this. There's much more.

An average guy has this mentality that girls are after their money and it is true because we have a track record of being entitled.

As you fine reach, you cannot buy data for yourself. You'll still wait to for him. Torh, I commend you to God.

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Adefunke Adeniyi
Adefunke Adeniyi

Written by Adefunke Adeniyi

I am a passionate writer and a media juggernaut. Join me as I navigate adulthood with humor and heart!

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